Where to find a genuine financial aids or private sector parties providing real, unsecured consolidation loans?

I needed urgently helps to aid me to settle all my licensed money lenders loans, these loans had caused me to many problems, losing my 4 years relationships, insomia, unable to concentrate my job, borrowing money from friends and relatives, causing them to start playing 'hide and seek' It seems like end of the world, can some1 pity my situation, bring me to the places or person can give me a loan, returning on monthly installments, of course with interests, please contact me asap at ratsgan@ymail.com , with yours contact no. and requirements.unsecured loans only.