Media not "-friendly"?

I wish that the media was more " friendly". you see gay guys all over TV, they are almost in every type of show there is, but you barely see s! and when you see s its the butch kind. im very girly and pretty and i wish the media gave more positive images of different types of s. when a guy says that he's gay i think people are more prone to believe him, but when i say it people think im kidding or going through a "phase" because it's kinda unheard of, i just wish the media would start to break through gay stereotypes and present s more often and more comfortably.